Some seek to justify women in the role of elder (same as overseer) by appealing to certain references about women of significance in Scripture (especially the New
Testament), but none of those references
specifically state that they were in acting in the role as an elder.
What
we see is that women, like men, can have the same spiritual gifts or
functions toward edifying the Church assembly, but many conflate
those functions with that role that has qualifications, being an elder, and that role is by appointment. Functions like
"pastor" or "preacher" have become common
designating terms for the lead elder, but they are really functions
that can have an application to either sex. One who pastors or
preaches or teaches can do it without being an elder. You could
say that all elders are teachers, but not all teachers are elders.
Elders must meet specific qualifications; the Apostle Paul set forth
these qualifications in First Timothy and in Titus. Paul
sent Titus to "appoint" elders. Elders are not
self-appointed. But pastor or teacher and preacher are functions, not the exact same thing as an elder which has certain qualifications.
One
of the qualifications is that the elder is the "husband of one
wife." One of the arguments against women pastors is that a woman obviously cannot be the husbands of one wife.
The comeback is either that this is a saying that was meant to be non-gender specific, since there are actually no male pronouns in the Greek in the text, or that women could not practice polygamy, and so Paul
is addressing specifically men in that case. Neither seems likely, because in the same letter to
Timothy, in setting forth the restrictions concerning taking in
widows by the church, Paul says, "Do not let a widow under sixty
years old be taken into the number, and not unless she has
been the wife of one man ..." 1 Timothy 5:9 Surely, he was gender specific concerning widows. Of course, the comeback will be that the requirement concerning widows would be gender specific, because men cannot be widows. Yet the singling out of wives or women in verse 11 to have certain qualities would suggest that the qualifications--including being the husband of one wife--are gender specific to the men. (Was he referring to polyandry,
being a woman with more than one husband, or was it about divorce or
being devoted to one man at a time? That's another issue that
one has to wrestle with.)
When Paul gives the qualifications
for Deacons, he says, "Likewise, their wives must be reverent,
not slanderers, temperate, faithful in all things." 1 Timothy
3:11 "Wives" can be translated "women," and
this why some believe women can be deacons. Those who
point out that male pronouns are not used in the preceding
qualifications for elder and deacon but added to the text would need
to explain why a specific reference to women and their conduct needs
to be made. If the qualifications are non-gender specific, then
why single out women? The non-gender specific claim so
that the qualifications can be applied to women is not helped by
saying the reference in verse 11 is about women and not wives.
Aren't those qualifications needed by men too? Why make a
specific reference to women?
Nevertheless, I believe it is
referring to wives of the deacons (and surely of the elders), because
why single out women for a few specific qualifications apart from
men? But to have these requirements of the wives of the men who
would be considered for the role of elder or deacon would make
sense. Women serving as deacons does not receive as much
opposition as with elder because of 1 Timothy 3:11, and the role
doesn't have the same weight as elder, when it comes to having
authority over another. But I believe that "wives" is
more likely than "women."
The word "submit" is brought up on this
issue. The claim is
made that though Scripture says that wives are to submit to their
husbands: Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything. Ephesians 5:22-24 It also says we are to submit to one another: submitting to one another in the fear of God. Ephesians 5:21 Submission speaks of being "put under," or to come under
the authority of another. In the church, we submit to one another
by respecting the differing functions or roles each have. The roles of husband and wife are not the same. It has been said that submission could be understood as "being supportive of." Recognizing and respecting the role of another would be "being supportive of." Are the roles of men and women or husband and wife exactly the same? We are told in Scripture that the "head" of woman is man: But I want you to know that the head of every man is Christ, the head of woman is man, and the head of Christ is God. 1 Corinthians 11:3. This shows a distinction in some sense. It has been claimed that this word in the Greek means something like "first soldier in." What exactly does that mean, and why such a distinction? Men and women are obviously different, and even the "head" reference reveals something different between the sexes. Equality doesn't mean that there are not differences in roles, especially in this temporal existence. Submission to all would involve recognizing and supporting those distinctive roles.
updated 8/11/2026